Bringing a Little Humor to Your Wedding Day

This Alvina Vaenta gown is preowned but never worn, discounted by nearly $1000!

One of the things I enjoyed most during planning our wedding was gown shopping. I love shopping so that part came easy but trying to pick the perfect gown- that was hard. I honestly never had a ‘this is the one’ moment. I ended up choosing the gown that I kept going back to but in the end I absolutely loved it. If you’re having a similar problem then these few tips may help make your decision easier.

1. Type of wedding.

Formal, informal, time of the day, time of year, and place where it will take place. If your wedding is in the winter you may not want a strapless gown but if you do choose one, consider using a cute bolero to cover your arms and shoulders. If you have a night time formal wedding, an elegant ball gown style would be more suited for this. A simple lace or tea length gown would be perfect for a more casual destination or garden wedding.

2. Your budget.

If your budget is really tight, center your search on used inexpensive wedding dresses. There are thousands of possibilities and many of them are designer gowns. A little adjustment here and there, and everybody will think the gown was made just for you.

3. Time available for choosing.

If the wedding is near, find an already-made dress. Having it tailored by a designer will take much longer, and you must assume the risk that the dress won’t be ready on time. Buy it off-the rack and use the remaining time for the right alterations to make it fit perfectly.

4. Material and details:

Embroidered fabric, beaded details and lace are used for enhancing certain parts of your body. Plain fabric is used to conceal your tiny flaws. Make sure your dress enhances your best features. Here’s more detailed information about how to choose a dress for your body type.

5. Personal characteristics:

Style, body type, height, weight, complexion, age, personality, and taste, everything counts. Always ask for expert advice. Mom’s don’t count here (they will find you gorgeous even in a plastic bag). Stressing your best characteristics and feeling comfortable are the best sensors you have in making the right choice.

Once you limit the scope of your search, things will be much easier. Asking for advice at bridal shops will help you determine the type of dress that best suits your figure. Base your choice on their advice and always ask for an honest opinion. Remember, the perfect dress for your wedding will be the sum of good advice (stressing your best features), a practical decision (comfort), and your total mindset for your bridal attire (if you don’t love it, it will show).